311: How to Choose the Right Mate? (Part 1)


How to Choose the Right Mate? (Part 1) with Nancy Arroyo RuffinIn this episode of the Listen Up Ladies series, Jay is joined by author and poet Nancy Arroyo Ruffin to address the concerns of a woman who wants to know how to choose the right mate and so much more.




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Episode Title: How to Choose the Right Mate? (Part 1)


Guest: Nancy Arroyo Ruffin Follow Her on Twitter


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Question We Address and Answer:

  • How challenging can it be for someone to determine who the right person for them is?


Key Lessons and Takeaways:

  • The value in marriage.
  • Why we must take time to determine if someone is right for us or not.
  • The importance of being with someone who will stick with you through challenges and tough times.



  • Jay admits that he used to be immature and didn’t like saying the word “marriage”.



  • He who finds a wife finds what is good
        and receives favor from the Lord.Proverbs 18:22 (NIV)


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