340: How to Argue the RIGHT Way (Part 1)


How to Argue the RIGHT Way (Part 1) with Tiya Cunningham-SumterIn this episode, Jay is joined by author, life & love coach Tiya Cunningham-Sumter to address the question: Do the majority of couples know how to argue the right way?




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Episode Title: How to Argue the RIGHT Way (Part 1)


Guest: Tiya Cunningham-Sumter Follow Her on Twitter


Check out Tiya’s AMAZING book, A Conversation Piece


Question We Address and Answer:

  • Do the majority of couples know how to argue the right way?


Key Lessons and Takeaways:

  • Learning how to overcome communication struggles in a relationship.
  • Why we must learn how to argue the right way.
  • Different argument styles that people have.
  • The importance of verbally communicating our frustrations in a relationship to our partner.
  • How to vent our frustrations the right way.



  • Tiya opens up about some of the communication issues she and her husband experienced when they first got married.
  • Jay admits that there were times he would immaturely shut down completely if he was experiencing issues with a woman he was involved with.
  • Jay shares what one of his biggest communication challenges is.


Hold Yourself Accountable:

  • Examine how you react or respond when you are upset or frustrated and identify your communication challenges or flaws.


Apply This Kingdom Principle:

  • My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, 20 because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires. 21 Therefore, get rid of all moral filth and the evil that is so prevalent and humbly accept the word planted in you, which can save you.” – James 1:19-21 (NIV)


Take Action Now:

  • Identify your communication challenges and flaws.
  • Read Tiya’s book, A Conversation Piece.
  • Stop being immature and sabotaging your relationship over foolishness.


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