485: What You MUST Know Before Saying “I Do” (Part 4)


What You MUST Know Before Saying In this episode, Jay concludes his discussion with Pastors Jasper and Alecia by addressing the question: What things must people know before they say “I Do”?





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Episode Title: What You MUST Know Before Saying “I Do” (Part 4)


Guest: Pastors Jasper and AleciaFollow Them on Twitter


Check out Pastors Jasper and Alecia’s ministry, The Church


Question We Address and Answer:

  • What things must people know before they say “I Do”?


Key Lessons and Takeaways:

  • How to distinguish between the things you can live with and the things you refuse to live with in a marriage.
  • The importance of marrying someone who we share the same values with.
  • How preparation can help a couple make a smooth transition into marriage.



  • “The man said,“This is now bone of my bones
    and flesh of my flesh;
    she shall be called ‘woman,’
    for she was taken out of man.””Genesis 2:23 (NIV)


  • “If your right eye causes you to stumble, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell.”Matthew 5:29 (NIV)


  • Heaven and earth will pass away, but my words will never pass away.Matthew 24:35 (NIV)


  • Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless.Ephesians 5:25-27 (NIV)


  • Though one may be overpowered,
    two can defend themselves.
    A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.Ecclesiastes 4:12 (NIV)


  • Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?2 Corinthians 6:14 (NIV)


Hold Yourself Accountable:

  • Do the work.


Apply the Kingdom Principle:

  • Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.Romans 12:2 (NIV)


Take Action Now:

  • Read a marriage preparation book.
  • Seek God’s guidance regarding the right godly marriage model.


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