55: What to Do if Your Man is Flirting with Other Women Online

You just discovered something about your man…


He likes to flirt with other women online.


What should you do?


Those are the concerns and question being addressed in the latest episode of the Listen Up Ladies series, with Jessica Simien.



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Episode Title: What to Do if Your Man is Flirting with Other Women Online


Guest: Jessica SimienFollow Her on Twitter


Music: HillaryJane – We Fight



  • “You can’t date someone and try to change them.” – Jessica Simien


  • “You can’t hold someone accountable for something they don’t know.” – Jessica Simien


Key Lessons:

  • The importance of getting to the root of an issue with your partner
  • How to deal with a partner who flirts on social media
  • Ways to minimize social media issues in a relationship


Hot Topics & Takeaways:

  • How to respond if your partner asks you to close your social media accounts
  • The impact of ‘liking’ vs. ‘commenting’
  • Jessica breaks down what a “crazy check” is and why you may need to do it


Experience is the Best Teacher:

  • Jessica explains why closing her social media accounts, at the request of her partner, is non-negotiable


Fun Times & Stories

  • Jessica shares the experience she had with an ex who used to like other women’s photos on Instagram, but not hers


Insight & Action Steps:

  1. Start in the mirror by examining your actions or proposed actions.
  2. Focus on determining what the root of the issue is.
  3. Discuss with your partner how you both can work through the issue together.


Apply the Principles:

“For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice. “ James 3:16 (ESV)


Show Some Love:

Please leave me a comment or a private message answering the following question:

Have you experienced challenges with social media in your marriage?


  • Whittney Barrow
    November 15, 2016

    This podcast really hit home. I recently found your podcast and I’m going through all of your them that relate to my life. Thank you so much for all your words of wisdom and helping me to see things from different views. The question I have is my boyfriend and I have a 10-month-old daughter together and put a couple months ago I found out that he had been messing around with one other woman and he had been doing it the entire relationship. I forgave him and we’ve been doing good for the past two months but we still have some issues. When I was pregnant he completely shut me out and had nothing to do with me. I went a little crazy one day because my hormones were absolutely crazy and I had saw that he had added his ex-girlfriend on Facebook and was liking all her pictures. I messaged her and told her that I was pregnant and I thought she should know. She came back and told me that yes she knew I was pregnant because my boyfriend told her everything. She also said that I needed to learn self-respect and that my boyfriend did not love me. Fast forward to the other day and she commented on his picture and said “you will always be my hero…” i’m battling with whether to say anything or let it go. Oh and I did not mention that he has me blocked on Facebook understandably so because of my outburst when I was pregnant but ask him the other day to unblock me and he said that he had not decided whether he was or was not and I just think that’s crazy. But please correct me if I’m wrong thank you so much for all of your help for podcast!!

    • Jay
      November 18, 2016

      Hey Whittney!

      Thank you so much for listening and sharing your experience.

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