520: Should Exes be Friends? (Part 3)


What You MUST Know Before Saying In this episode, Jay concludes his discussion with Tonia Shalel by addressing the question: When should we avoid being friends with an ex?





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Episode Title: Should Exes be Friends? (Part 3)


Guest: Tonia Shalel Follow Her on TwitterCheck out Her Instagram


Question We Address and Answer:

  • When should we avoid being friends with an ex?


Key Lessons and Takeaways:

  • The danger of staying connected to an ex.
  • Why full avoidance of an ex is sometimes the only option.
  • The value in moving forward after a relationship ends.
  • When it’s possible to be friends with an ex.
  • Things to consider before remaining friends with an ex.


Hold Yourself Accountable:

  • Answer the question: Do you really need them in your life?


Apply the Kingdom Principle:


Take Action Now:

  • Examine the relationships you have with exes and determine whether or not they are beneficial.
  • Make a choice to keep or release an ex from your life.


Book Recommendations:



Free Resources:

Check out Tonia’s previous appearance on the podcast discussing ‘Dangers of Desiring a Social Media Relationship’


TD Jakes sermon ‘The Gift of Goodbye’


Pastor Jerry Flowers and his wife Tanisha Flowers’ Redefined TV webisode on exes


Pastor Jerry Flowers video message on ‘Let It Go’


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