493: Why Men Fear Marriage and Commitment (Part 2)


What You MUST Know Before Saying In this episode of the MenChat series, Jay continues his discussion with life and relationship coach Troy Spry by addressing the question: Why do many men fear marriage?





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Episode Title: Why Men Fear Marriage and Commitment (Part 2)


Guest: Troy Spry Follow Him on Twitter


Check out Troy’s book, Teach Me How to Love


Questions We Address and Answer:

  • Why do many men fear marriage?
  • What are the benefits of getting married?


Key Lessons and Takeaways:

  • Why some men have no desire to get married.
  • The danger of self-handicapping ourselves.
  • The impact that self-deception can have on us.
  • Fears that men have about marriage.



  • Jay admits that he used to have immature views of marriage.
  • Jay explains how his mindset towards marriage has changed.


Hold Yourself Accountable:

  • Acknowledge your fears.


Apply the Kingdom Principle:

  • When Pharaoh let the people go, God did not lead them on the road through the Philistine country, though that was shorter. For God said, “If they face war, they might change their minds and return to Egypt.”Exodus 13:17 (NIV)


Take Action Now:

  • Acknowledge your fear of marriage and commitment.
  • Accept that you may be wrong about how you once perceived or thought about marriage and commitment.
  • Read biblical-based books to get new and balanced information on marriage and commitment.


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