There are so many things that we as men must consider when preparing for a first date.
We must have a solid plan in place, know what we’re going to wear, have conversation starters and questions on deck and have enough money to afford all the things we have planned for the lovely lady.
Each of those things is important, but I want to share with you something that is vital for EVERY man to have before going on a first date. However, it is something that many men often lack; myself included for many years!
The one thing I believe every man must have before going on a first date is a VISION. He must have a vision of what he desires in a woman and a vision of the destination that he would like to lead them both towards.
This vision must far surpass inviting a woman to a fancy restaurant to wine and dine her. A man must know whether he is interested in a woman who he plans to court and one day marry or if he is simply looking for something casual.
Having a clear vision will enable a man to verbally communicate to women what he is interested in and help him determine whether or not a woman he’s going on a date with is in alignment with his vision.
Without a clear vision, the first date will be a disaster before it even starts. So before you ask a woman out…HAVE A VISION!
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