167: Single and Content (Part 1)


Single and Content (Part 1) with Dr. Clarence ShulerIn this episode, Jay and Dr. Clarence Shuler will address the question: Why do many people struggle with being happy, single and content?




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Episode Title: Single and Content (Part 1)


Guest: Dr. Clarence Shuler Follow Him on Twitter



  • “The ultimate goal in life is not getting married; it’s a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.” – Dr. Clarence Shuler


  • “If you’re not content being single, that means you have a real inaccurate view of who you are.” – Dr. Clarence Shuler


  • “You find your value in truly understanding that God made you in His image.” – Jay Mayo


Key Lessons and Takeaways:

  • The importance of developing self-worth and self-love.
  • Why you must learn to embrace your singleness.
  • The first step towards being single and content that you don’t want to skip.
  • The importance of what it truly means to be single.



  • Dr. Shuler talks about the pressure his mother put on him to get married.
  • Dr. Shuler opens up about his struggles with pornography as a single man.



  • Then God said, “Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over the cattle, over all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.”
    27 So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.
    28 Then God blessed them, and God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it; have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over every living thing that moves on the earth.” – Genesis 1:26-28 (NKJV)


  • And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.” – Romans 8:28 (NKJV)


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  • Renatha
    September 6, 2015

    Dr. Shuler made a wonderful point about GOD could be holding the best for us as to why we are stil single or keeping us from abusive relationships. I believe that to be true. In my opinion as far as some women that are in their miid 30s I think our age bracket tends to feel like we are getting older and it’s about that time to settle down and grow old with someone not necessarily saying that marriage is the last stop. We want it all marriage, house ,kids, GOD, banging career, our sanity lol. Alot of us women have been waiting a long time for the one but it’s ultimately up to GOD when he will come. Overall good podcast and thanks Dr Shuler for sharing your thoughts and advice and thanks Jay for all that you continue to do.

    • Jay
      September 8, 2015

      Hey Renatha!

      Thank you so much for taking the time out to listen and I am glad that you enjoyed the discussion.

      Placing God at the center of our life is the first step toward true peace, joy and happiness.

      Like the Word of God states in Matthew 6:33, “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.”

      The key is to seek God first and thing the things we desire will be added to our lives. The process is laid out clearly for us. We must make the decision to follow it though.

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