In this episode of the Ladies, Help a Brotha Out! series, Tara Gates Anderson answers the question of a man who wants to know why his girlfriend is mad about him having 2 phones.
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Episode Title: Yeah I Got 2 Phones! Why She Mad?!
Co-host: Tara Gates Anderson – Follow Her on Twitter
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June 12, 2015
I agree where Tara stated it’s not about the phone at all. It’s about the lack of trust or insecurity in the relationship, in my humble opinion. I reflected upon whether those emotions would be present if (as Tara also suggested) communication and respect were stronger ties.
Good discussion.
June 12, 2015
That’s real! This issue likely far surpasses the phones.
I really appreciate you taking the time out to listen and share your take Don.
Thank you and God bless you!
June 15, 2015
Tara made some good points and gave wonderful words of wisdom. In my opinion I would have to say that it’s the phone and its the situations with the phones. Everyone knows communication is the key to a better long lasting relationship so why even have two phones. Now before I get attacked it wasn’t mentioned of course how, when, and why he has two phones so until we know that information then it’s kinda hard to figure out somethings. However I will say this I have worked with alot of men in my career field and majority of them have two phones so I asked them why. One of the guys said because he gets some explicit images etc to this phone and he doesn’t want any playing Dora the Explorer on this particular phone. I’m not saying this is why he has two phones just giving an example. So to make a long story short there needs to be a level of trust, understanding on both parts, and can she answer his other phone or phones so that way he can shows her that he is trustworthy. Men you have to make a women feel like she can trust you. To the women of the man who has two phones just talk to him in a relaxed environment(nice candle light dinnee followed by $$$ ok you can figure the rest out yourself) lol(just keeping it real) and hopefully if he loves you then he will convey the reasons behind having two phones. I didn’t want to make this long and again these are my opinions based on the story which of course didn’t have much details but again just my thoughts. Till then right to real love community stay blessed.
June 18, 2015
Hey Renatha! Thank you so much for listening to the episode and sharing your take on this situation.
Trust me, you will not be attacked for your providing your perspective. The R.E.A.L. Love community welcomes what you have to say.
I agree that trust and communication play huge roles in this situation. As long as both partners are mature and willing to listen to one another this is something that can be worked out.
Thanks again for sharing your thoughts with us.
God bless you too!