How and When to Discuss Finances in a Relationship (Part 1)

1014: How and When to Discuss Finances in a Relationship (Part 1)

In this episode of the MenChat series, Jay is joined by author Lionel Shipman to address the question: Why can finances cause major issues in relationships?

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Episode Title: How and When to Discuss Finances in a Relationship (Part 1)

Guest: Lionel Shipman – Follow Him on Twitter

Check out Lionel’s book, Sacred Vows: The Knot or Not

Question We Address and Answer:

Why can finances cause major issues in relationships?

Key Lessons and Takeaways:

The danger of men thinking they know it about finances.
How upbringing impacts your money mindset.
Reasons why finances can cause issues in relationships.

Scriptures:

“No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money.” – Matthew 6:24 (NIV)

“If a kingdom is divided against itself, that kingdom cannot stand. ²⁵And if a house is divided against itself, that house cannot stand. “ – Mark 3:24-25 (NKJV)

“Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won’t you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it? 29 For if you lay the foundation and are not able to finish it, everyone who sees it will ridicule you, 30 saying, ‘This person began to build and wasn’t able to finish.’” – Luke 14:28-30 (NIV)

“What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.“ – Mark 10:9 (KJV)

Hold Yourself Accountable:

Choose to not ignore or minimize the importance of discussing finances, especially before getting married.

Apply the Kingdom Principle:

Do two walk together unless they have agreed to do so? – Amos 3:3 (NIV)

Take Action Now:

Commit to doing a personal study in the Word of God on money, finances, management and stewardship in order to gain God’s perspective on how to effectively manage money.

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