868: How to Heal From Church Hurt (Part 4)


How to Heal From Church Hurt (Part 4)In this episode, Jay continues his discussion with CoCo Gayle by addressing the question: What responsibility do believers in Jesus Christ have?





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Episode Title: How to Heal From Church Hurt (Part 4)


Guest: CoCo GayleFollow Her on Twitter


Check out CoCo’s book, Pregnant with Purpose


Question We Address and Answer:

  • What responsibility do believers in Jesus Christ have?


Key Lessons and Takeaways:

  • The importance of being able to discern false disciples of Jesus Christ.
  • The value of doing what God’s Word says.
  • God’s desire to truly know us.
  • The responsibility that believers in Jesus Christ have.
  • The importance of understanding who our true enemy is.



  • CoCo shares how her life changed when she developed a true relationship with Jesus Christ.



  • But if they will not listen, take one or two others along, so that ‘every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.’ 17 If they still refuse to listen, tell it to the church; and if they refuse to listen even to the church, treat them as you would a pagan or a tax collector.Matthew 18:16-17


  • My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angryJames 1:19 (NIV)


  • If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat;
    if he is thirsty, give him water to drink.
    22 In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head,
    and the Lord will reward you.Proverbs 25:21-22 (NIV)


  • “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. 22 Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name and in your name drive out demons and in your name perform many miracles?’ 23 Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!’Matthew 7:21-23 (NIV)



  • Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.Colossians 3:13 (NIV)


  • Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You shut the door of the kingdom of heaven in people’s faces. You yourselves do not enter, nor will you let those enter who are trying to.Matthew 23:13 (NIV)


  • For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.Ephesians 6:12 (NIV)


  • And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.Romans 8:28 (NKJV)


  • The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.John 10:10 (NIV)


Hold Yourself Accountable:

  • If you are truly hurt, seek healing. If you are offended, release the offense.


Apply the Kingdom Principle:

  • “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. 32 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”Ephesians 4:29-32 (NIV)


Take Action Now:

  • Listen to this discussion again.
  • Examine your experience through prayer and self-examination.
  • Start the healing process with forgiveness.
  • Read The Bait of Satan.


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