634: Why Your Past Does Not Define You (Part 3)


Why Your Past Does Not Define You (Part 3)In this episode, Jay continues his discussion with Coco Gayle by addressing the question: How can we use our past to our benefit?





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Episode Title: Why Your Past Does Not Define You (Part 3)


Guest: Coco GayleFollow Her on Twitter


Question We Address and Answer:

  • How can we use our past to our benefit?


Key Lessons and Takeaways:

  • Why we must be willing to accept God’s help with healing from our past.
  • The danger of ignoring problems in our past.
  • Why faith is the key to our healing.



  • And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.Romans 8:28 (NIV)


  • Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.2 Corinthians 5:17 (NKJV)


  • Do not judge, or you too will be judged. 2 For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.Matthew 7:1-2 (NIV)


  • For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.John 3:16 (NIV)


  • For to us a child is born,
    to us a son is given,
    and the government will be on his shoulders.
    And he will be called
    Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God,
    Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.Isaiah 9:6 (NIV)


Hold Yourself Accountable:

  • Acknowledge your past and seek God’s help to make peace with your past.


Apply the Kingdom Principle:

  • When Jesus saw him lying there and learned that he had been in this condition for a long time, he asked him, “Do you want to get well?”John 5:6 (NIV)


Take Action Now:

  • Go before God acknowledge your past, ask for forgiveness, accept His forgiveness and trust that He can make peace with your past.


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