620: Take Back Control of Your Life (Part 1)


Take Back Control of Your Life (Part 1)In this episode, Jay is joined by life coach Miss T.N. King to address the question: Why do we relinquish control of our lives to others?





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Episode Title: Take Back Control of Your Life (Part 1)


Guest: Miss T.N. KingFollow Her on Twitter


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Question We Address and Answer:

  • Why do we relinquish control of our lives to others?


Key Lessons and Takeaways:

  • Why most people do not have control over their lives.
  • The areas in life that many people lack control in.
  • The importance of self-love.
  • Why some people relinquish control of their life to other people.
  • Why we must take time to heal after being hurt.
  • How fear can hinder us from having control of our lives.



  • Miss T.N. Kings opens up about the times she gave other people too much control over her life.



  • Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.1 John 4:8 (NIV)


  • It is better to take refuge in the Lord
        than to trust in humans.
    Psalm 118:8 (NIV)


  • Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen.1 John 4:20 (NIV)


  • But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.”Galatians 5:22-23 (NIV)


Hold Yourself Accountable:

  • You must accept that taking control of your life begins with loving yourself.


Apply the Kingdom Principle:

  • One of the teachers of the law came and heard them debating. Noticing that Jesus had given them a good answer, he asked him, “Of all the commandments, which is the most important?”29 “The most important one,” answered Jesus, “is this: ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. 30 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ 31 The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.”Mark 12:28-31 (NIV)


Take Action Now:

  • Accept that change begins with you.
  • Start the journey of self-discovery.
  • Read God’s Word and learn who He is.
  • Pray and meditate on God’s Word daily.


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