293: Why People Settle Instead of Waiting for the Right Person (Part 2)


Why People Settle Instead of Waiting for the Right Person (Part 2) with AutumnIn this episode, Jay continues his discussion with Autumn by addressing the question: What are the dangers of settling?




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Episode Title: Why People Settle Instead of Waiting for the Right Person (Part 2)


Guest: Autumn Follow Her on Twitter


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  • “People can go to hell for love.” – Autumn


  • “If you don’t know what you’re worth, then you’re willing to accept anything.” – Jay Mayo


  • “Only we can make the decision to settle for less than God’s best for us.” – Jay Mayo


Question We Address and Answer:

  • What are the dangers of settling?


Key Lessons and Takeaways:

  • The value in waiting for God’s best for us.
  • The danger in not knowing our value or who we are in Jesus Christ.
  • Why we want to avoid being in an unequally yoked relationship.



  • Autumn and Jay share their thoughts and perspectives on “The One”.



  • But I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God..1 Corinthians 11:3 (NIV)


  • Sometimes I wish everyone were single like me—a simpler life in many ways! But celibacy is not for everyone any more than marriage is. God gives the gift of the single life to some, the gift of the married life to others.1 Corinthians 7:7 (MSG)


  • I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord’s affairs—how he can please the Lord. 33 But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world—how he can please his wife— 34 and his interests are divided. An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord’s affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world—how she can please her husband. 35 I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord.1 Corinthians 7:32-35 (NIV)


  • This is why I speak to them in parables:

    “Though seeing, they do not see;
    though hearing, they do not hear or understand.”Matthew 13:13 (NIV)

  • Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.”Matthew 19:26 (NIV)


  • Then he continued, “Do not be afraid, Daniel. Since the first day that you set your mind to gain understanding and to humble yourself before your God, your words were heard, and I have come in response to them.Daniel 10:12 (NIV)


  • Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him.James 1:12 (NIV)


  • Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.Galatians 6:9 (NIV)


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