34: How to Avoid Ever Going on Another Lame Date

You’ve been going out frequently with a guy you really like…


BUT all he ever wants to do is take you out for dinner and a movie.


How can you let him know you want to do something different?


That’s precisely the situation a young woman who contacted me recently found herself in.


In the latest episode of the Listen Up Ladies series, I will address her question and concerns, provide my insight and discuss this situation from a woman’s perspective with Miss P.



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Episode Title: How to Avoid Ever Going on Another Lame Date


Guest: Miss PFollow Her on Twitter


Music: Cornelio Austin – Everyday Valentine



  • “Women, myself included, have stopped letting the man be the man.” – Miss P


  • “I believe the expectations for a first date shouldn’t be super high, you should just enjoy the moment and what happens, happens.” – Miss P


  • “I will know after three or four dates if I really want to be with you.” – Miss P


  • “People don’t want relationships no more. They want situations…and you’re acting like you are in a relationship.” – Miss P


  • “As a man, you need to be man enough that if your woman comes to you and says, ‘Hey! I want to do something different.’ you should take it upon yourself to do something different.” – Jay


Key Lessons:

  • Miss P explains why good conversation and energy are essential to avoid having a lame date
  • How a woman can communicate to a man what she desires to do on a date
  • The importance of always being aware of your ATTITUDE


Hot Topics & Takeaways:

  • Miss P shares how you can determine if a date is going to be lame BEFORE you go on it
  • The power of being NICE
  • Effective ways for ANY woman (whether she is shy, direct or somewhere in the middle) to let a man know she would like him to take her out on a date


Dangers & Difficulties:

  • Why your expectations should never be TOO HIGH on a date
  • Why you should stop being afraid to appear THIRSTY to someone you really like


Fun Times & Stories:

  • Miss P tells all about the BEST DATE she’s ever been on


Insight & Action Steps:

  1. Have standards and know what you want
  2. Don’t be afraid to speak up or nudge him
  3. Take the initiative to do something different
  4. Properly manage your expectations
  5. Remove pressure (from him and yourself) and just have fun


Apply the Principles:

” This is the day the Lord has made; We will rejoice and be glad in it. “ Psalm 118:24 (NKJV)


Show Some Love:

Please leave me a comment or a private message answering the following question:

How can a woman let a man know she would like to do something different on a date?


  • Destiny's Truth
    August 14, 2014

    I really enjoyed having Miss P on the show in the most recent Listen Up Ladies series. I am a fan of Peace, Love and All That Good Stuff and Miss P’s website. I feel that the young woman writing for advise received sound wisdom from both Miss P and yourself, Jay. Miss P’s statement that when a first date the objective should be to just enjoy yourself and have fun, removing all the pressure, was quote insightful. This serious topic being discussed in a fun and less formal format is what makes Listen Up Ladies one of my favorite series on Right To Real Love Radio.

    • Jay
      August 25, 2014

      Oh yeah! I always have a blast choppin it up with my gyrl Miss P. I am so happy that you enjoyed the discussion.

      Wow! It means a lot to mean that you enjoy the Listen Up Ladies series so much.

      Thank you for your continued support Destiny!

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