232: Discover Your True Self (Part 2)


Discover Your True Self (Part 2)In this episode, Jay continues his discussion with Twila by addressing the question: How important is it to discover your true self?




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Episode Title: Discover Your True Self (Part 2)


Guest: Twila


Question We Address and Answer:

  • How important is it to discover your true self?



  • “God is trying to bring us back to Him.” – Jay


  • “If you want to discover your true self, you must be willing to take a step back.” – Jay


  • “Ignorance is far more costly than knowledge and wisdom.” – Jay


Key Lessons and Takeaways:

  • Why stepping back is necessary to discover your true purpose.
  • How developing a relationship with God, your Source, will help you discover your true self.
  • The difference between knowing your gender and truly knowing yourself.
  • The importance of seeking God.



  • Twila shares how God has been teaching her patience.



  • “So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.Genesis 1:27 (NKJV)


  • “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.Matthew 6:33 (NKJV)


  • Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time.”1 Peter 5:6 (NKJV)


  • And lest I should be exalted above measure by the abundance of the revelations, a thorn in the flesh was given to me, a messenger of Satan to buffet me, lest I be exalted above measure.2 Corinthians 12:7 (NKJV)


  • For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.Jeremiah 29:11 (NKJV)


  • There are many plans in a man’s heart, Nevertheless the Lord’s counsel—that will stand.Proverbs 19:21 (NKJV)



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  • Miss Reese
    November 29, 2015

    Hi Jay, I have been following your ministerial work since you started on Youtube. I’m not into social media much but I learned of your podcast and have been catching up on all the episodes. You threw me for a loop when you said ” If you want to discover your true self, you must be willing to take a step back”. I went to college. I went to graduate school. I got a very good job with money and all sorts of benefits. Then something just started feeling…wrong. I’m now in the process of leaving this job and getting into something a little different. You saying “you must be willing to take a step back” brought me a little peace. I’m sure you understand the difficult lesson one learns regarding money and God (Mat.6:24) when faced with a decision of leaving one’s job to pursue ministry. I know you and Twila were talking about something slightly different but BOY did it fit right in with the dialogue in my mind about upcoming decisions. 🙂

    PS- This was the first podcast I jumped into (don’t ask me why I didn’t at least start with part 1 of this conversation) and I was SO happy to hear you say “Deuces” at the end!

    • Jay
      November 30, 2015

      Hey Miss Reese!

      It means so much to still have your continued support. I really appreciate it more than you know.

      Thank you for listening to the podcast. I’m glad you found value in the discussion with Twila and I hope you continue to enjoy the podcast.

      I can totally relate to the experience you shared. It is very much like my journey has been.

      It’s not easy to take a step back, but oftentimes it’s what we need to do.

      Yes, Matthew chapter 6, especially verse 33, was a HUGE help for me when I made the decision to leave my career.

      If you ever have any questions or just want to talk more about our experiences, feel free to contact me via email.

      I believe that God led you to this episode for a reason. Thank you again for listen.

      God bless you!

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