256: Men, Virginity and Sexual Purity (Part 2)


Men, Virginity and Sexual Purity (Part 2) with Derrick CuffieIn this episode of the MenChat series, Jay continues his discussion with Derrick Cuffie by addressing the question: Why is sexual purity expected more from women than men?




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Episode Title: Men, Virginity and Sexual Purity (Part 2)


Guest: Derrick Cuffie Follow Him on Instagram


Check out Derrick’s Facebook Group, No Single Left Behind



  • “God called all of us, men and women, to sexual purity.” – Derrick Cuffie


  • “You are no less of a man because you decide to honor and respect a woman.” – Derrick Cuffie


  • “We can’t take God’s grace for granted.” – Derrick Cuffie


Questions We Address and Answer:

  • What is it like for a man to be an adult virgin?
  • Why is sexual purity expected more from women than men?
  • What do most men think about remaining a virgin into adulthood?
  • Why aren’t more children taught about the importance of sexual purity?


Key Lessons and Takeaways:

  • Why men must commit to living a life that is pleasing to God.
  • The responsibility men have to set the course and be the spiritual leaders in their relationships with women.
  • The danger in trying to find validation in sex, relationships and people.
  • The need for parents to teach and enlighten their children in spiritual matters.



  • Derrick shares what his experience in life has been like as a virgin.



  • Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.Proverbs 22:6 (NKJV)


  • But I want you to be without care. He who is unmarried cares for the things of the Lord—how he may please the Lord.”1 Corinthians 7:32 (NKJV)


  • Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.”2 Corinthians 5:17 (NKJV)


  • No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it.1 Corinthians 10:13 (NKJV)


  • Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29 Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.” – Matthew 11:28-30 (NKJV)


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  • Yamilee
    December 14, 2015

    Wow! The transparency of Derrick and you Jay really helped me have faith that men are able to value their bodies as wel as the women they encounter in order to live a life of purity.

    Just hearing Derrick’s story keeps me motivated to stay pure although myself I am not a virgin, I have committed to staying celibate until marriage. Hearing others share their stories and struggles has been really encouraging. I definitely will join the Facebook group and any other avenues you both suggested!

    Thank you again for allowing yourselves to be vulnerable and share with us your experiences. Can’t wait to hear the next episode!

    • Jay
      December 14, 2015

      Hey Yamilee!

      I am so happy that you found value in our transparency.

      Men are totally able to value our bodies, respect and value women and live pure lives. More men must be educated on how to do so, according to God’s Word.

      Yes! Stay the course and remain pure. There is remarkable value in honoring God and your body.

      Derrick’s Facebook group is great. I hope that you find value in it.

      Thank you for listening and sharing your thoughts and experiences. I greatly appreciate it!

      God bless you!

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