1040: How to be The One Before You Find The One (Part 3)

 

How to be The One Before You Find The One (Part 3)In this episode, Jay concludes his discussion with life coach Jill Monaco by addressing the question: Why is it important to focus on developing ourselves instead of trying to find The One?

 

 

 

 

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Episode Title: How to be The One Before You Find The One (Part 3)

 

Guest: Jill MonacoFollow Her on Twitter

 

Check out Jill’s book, Freedom Coach Model

 

Question We Address and Answer:

  • Why is it important to focus on developing ourselves instead of trying to find The One?

 

Key Lessons and Takeaways:

  • The importance of thinking about what we can offer rather than what we need.
  • Why there is nothing wrong with having a desire to get married.

 

Experience:

  • Jay shares what in a woman will turn him off and his perspective on women asking men out.

 

Scriptures:

  • Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?2 Corinthians 6:14 (ESV)

 

  • Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.2 Corinthians 5:17 (ESV)

 

  • But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.Matthew 6:33 (NKJV)

 

  • The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”Genesis 2:18 (NIV)

 

  • For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.Ephesians 6:12 (ESV)

 

Hold Yourself Accountable:

  • Acknowledge the danger of focusing more on what you need/want in a spouse than what you are able to offer a spouse.

 

Apply the Kingdom Principle:

  • “He who walks [as a companion] with wise men will be wise, But the companions of [conceited, dull-witted] fools [are fools themselves and] will experience harm.”Proverbs 13:20 (AMP)

 

Take Action Now:

  • Ask these questions with God:
  • Do I love myself?
  • What do I love about myself?
  • What things don’t I love about myself?
  • God, what do you love about me?

 

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